SEX? okay

Hello friends.

I hope we are still friends, if you are following along and taking steps to regain closeness in your relationship It could be getting you out of trouble, or pushing you deeper inside of it, either way you are making an effort to at least have some kind of movement in your relationship.    And no its not like a bowel movement, even though it may feel like it at times.   Believe me I know how you feel I've been there, please be nice to each other.

I have to say that a lot of couples start receiving hope and clarity in this stage of the process it gives them hope to go even deeper into their communication to see what other things could be hindering their closeness.     

At this point in the process couples experience the best sex they have ever had in their relationship, this happens due to their commitment to work out their issues. hey, hey, hey, we are talking about great sex here !    What sex starved couple wouldn't want that?

Question # 1, Are you experiencing what is known as break thought sex.    Hey if you're not experiencing break through sex you are not doing it right !!  I'm just saying.

Question # 2, Do you want sex at all at this point? I don't know, maybe the thought of having sex just grosses you out right now.   Hey lets be totally real about it, I understand, I've been there as well. and I happen to like sex very very much, did I mention how much I like sex? but it got to the point in my relationship that the beauty of my wife was hidden behind a crazy psycho mess.   Oh believe me I was there,  I didn't want to be. But we worked it out and we love each other again.  yeah !!!


I 'll leave you with a few more questions;

1.Do you want to resolve the disconnect in your relationship?  Be truthful, what are you afraid of.

2.Do you still think you can fall in love again in your relationship?  It will take work, is it worth it to you.

3.Are you willing to once again commit yourself to this once vibrant relationship? It takes two.

4.Do you miss having SEX in your relationship?    Let me tell you, I sure did.

I gave you enough to think about, until next time, get to work on your relationship, don't worry about being perfect, you have the rest of your life to be perfect.

Hey friends feel free to ask questions, Your freedom awaits you.


This is JD wanting to encourage your commitment to your relationship.