BREATH DEEP

Hello friends welcome back to your relationship.

I would like to thank all those who are following along, thank you India for joining in, thank you UK for joining us as well, and thank you Germany for your commitment in upfront love.

Well, I would like to apologize to all the relationships out there, I was told by a reader that they, (meaning he and his bride to be) needed more time to work on  issues that were brought up two to three blogs ago.

He and his fiancee have been following along and doing the homework asking one another the hard questions with an upfront love approach and found themselves in a very sensitive area which needs extra time to resolve the issue,and trying to keep up with the new blogs add extra stress to their relationship.    I'm so so sorry to all of you that may feel the same way, please! feel free to go along at your own pace.

Don't worry about keeping up with new blogs, that's what is so great about  blogs you can get to it when its convenient for you. However, I really appreciate your commitment in taking a bold step to work on your relationship.

The main goal in this process is to promote CONNECTION in the relationship not perfection, if you are having a tough time on an issue take as long as you need to. Identify the root of the issue and to find out or clarify if the issue comes from within the relationship or from outside the relationship. and deal with it accordingly.

Don't forget to breath your life depends on it, When ever you open a window of vulnerability in your life it can be a very scary place to find yourself in and its not easy at all to deal with again. But I want to encourage you to not let your pride or your past nor any person or anything stop you from getting your breakthrough.

I feel the need to repeat myself and say that your relationship is CORE to the strength of your life, when we  put our relationships first everything else in our life will start to fall in order, your household will get in line, your profession will fall in its right place, and your finances will get in line.  These are the added benefits of working on the CORE relationship.

 So get to work and strengthen your CORE and watch the rest of your life strengthen with it.

Thanks for coming you guys ROCK !  See ya soon  JD.

Please remember to laugh as well, its good for the soul , Here's a funny video for you.