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 Hello and Welcome Upfront Lovers

Yesterday we talked about knowing our true selves, being true to ourselves and being a strong upfront lover.

In upfront love you must be transparent and open, most people are afraid of that because of the vulnerability one might experience. Yikes!

This step in the process of upfront love will uncover new issues to deal with, all the hidden secrets of a persons life must be spoken of to bring it out in the open and dealt with. Oh no!

Many couples have hidden secrets that kill the oneness and closeness of the relationship over time they get accustom to that way of life.  That's sad but true.

The real truth is that they have now reduced themselves into being acquaintances with the benefit of being bothered by each other.   How stupid is that, and we are known as the intelligent race.

Have you heard of a woman saying I want to get married so bad so I can be ignored and neglected. .       No! what planet would she be from, Right!  .OR.

What man would say I'd love to marry that girl just to do things behind her back.  No! No! No!, 1 this would be to much work for a guy, 2 its STUPID! right?

So we can clearly see that people generally want the best when it comes to relationships.  That's a good thing.

Guys relationships take work hard work and marriage well lets just say that marriage could just be all a big mirage if you are not open, vulnerable, transparent,and truthful.

So get to working on your MIRAGE oops I mean MARRIAGE it may get worst before it gets better but I happen to think its all worth it.

And you unmarried couples well you're going to hell, ha ha ah I'm playing with you, all kidding  aside go to work on your relationship.

Finding out who you are, and  what you are in a relationship is so freeing especially if your relationship is down in the dumps, stop blaming yourself its a relationship we all have baggage.  I'll see ya tomorrow.

Thanks for listening . My best to all  JD.