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Yesterday we talked about how our relationship are the CORE of our life, and how everything else will strengthen once we start to work on or pump up our relationships. Yes it is similar to that of working out your CORE of your body its the same principle.
We also talked about our CONNECTION in a relationship as being more important then PERFECTION in a relationship, connection is the key that will unlock the heart of LOVE.
Today I would like to touch on a subject that causes more issues in a marriage then we care to mention, but it must be said in order to Identify it.
The home that you grew up in may be a big cause of issues in a relationship, now, some people might say, well, that's no secret I was raised in a bad home environment, yes, while that would be obvious, its the seemingly good family homes I want to talk about.
One in a relationship may come from a very good home, mom and dad full of love, brothers and sisters all get along, all needs are met by mom and dad every child in the is well taken cared of.
That person that comes from that type of well taken cared of environment could inadvertently cause undue stress in a relationship,and this without knowing, for example wanting everything they had growing up at home to be in their current relationship, although none of these desires are bad, they could be a posing problem.
What I'm saying is that although these good and well intended blessings you receive while at home under mom and dad may not be a automatic blessing in your new relationship.
We can bring bad baggage into the relationship and we can bring good baggage into the relationship, baggage is baggage no matter how you look at it.
Don't let any old baggage of any kind come between you and your new relationship no matter how well intended it may be. Cherish what you had at mom and dads love them for it, but start anew in your current relationship
Your relationship or marriage should begin a life of its own, making new blessing in your home, doing what is the best for your current relationship.
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