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Hi and Aloha, Wade Kapaona here I was born and raised in Kailua Oahu HI, I currently live in Northern California.  I joined empower network for a couple of reasons one because I'm out of work due to a disability that has limited me from doing a lot things, so trying to find something to do has been a challenge for me right from the start .

The 2nd reason I joined was because of the simple fact that it was something I could do at home on my computer, the presentation by the owners of the company was very helpful in my decision in joining.   I joined.

The 3rd reason I joined empower network was because of the openness ( The ALOHA ) Hawaiians like to say when you give someone or something the opportunity to advance  personal or business ventures, this is purely a business that advances other businesses .
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The 4th reason I joined empower network is because of the ready to use step by step blogging system that puts you in the drivers set empowering you with a new skill set that I can learn as I build my own business on the go.

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Bikinis are very sexy. Bathing suit designers are becoming really creative and expressive with their designs and I absolutely love it! As summer draws near, it's time to shop for your bathing suits and these are what I consider as the best five bikinis for the summer. These can all be found at Victoria's Secret which has a wide range of variety when it comes to bikini. I love Victoria's Secret but if it's not in your budget, you can find similar styles at other places.

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.1. Zebra-print Push-up Halter- This is so beautiful. I love print and this black and white zebra print is fierce. The bikini top ties at the back and neck and shows a lot of boobs. The bottom which is low rise ties on both sides. It's really cute and it stands out which is always great. The top is on sale for $21 and the bottom is on sale for $15.
2. Miraculous Multi-way Push-up Bandeau Top- This bikini top is beautiful. It is paired with the matching Very Sexy bottoms. It is in leopard print, dots, neon watermelon and black. The bottom comes in even more colors so you can mix and match. It can also be worn four different ways. It can be worn as a halter, classic, cross-back or strapless. It has a goldtone center and adds up to two cup sizes. The top is $62 and the bottom is $30.
3. Neon Triangle Top- This piece is paired with a neon jewel-trim string bottom. It comes in a fabulous neon yellow. The back of the top is detailed and gorgeous, it's my favorite part of the whole swim suit. If you love bright colors like I do, this is the perfect piece for you. The top is on sale for $31 and the bottom is on sale for $33.
4. VS Stringkini Kaleidoscope Triangle Top- This is a very basic bikini style. What makes it pop is the color. It comes in both a purple combo and a blue combo. The purple combo is my favorite. It is paired with the VS Stringkini Kaleidoscope bottom. The top is on sale for $33.99 and the bottom is on sale for $19.99.

5. Sara Sliding Halter Top- This is paired with a matching side-ruched low-rise bottom. It comes in black with colorful stripes. You get to wear black and color at the same time and the contrast is amazing. It's very pretty bikini and I love the sides of the bottom. The top is solve for $18 and the bottom cost $16.

I had so many different pieces that I loved so it was hard picking only five but I tried to cover a variety of styles. I'm ready to hit the beach after writing this so I hope you're ready to hit the beach after reading! Happy shopping and have a great summer.
Thanks for view my blog get ready for a Hot Summer. Wade Kapaona.

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Article by David Wood I blog
David Wood is a bit of a wild man, who started building his online empire out of the ‘mid-section’ of a green 1996 Dodge Caravan (that he lived in) on the North Shore of Oahu, Hawaii – since then, he’s become the #1 all time producer in four separate network marketing companies, co-founded the fastest growing affiliate empire in the history of online marketing, and paid out $20.4 million in commissions… just in the last 13 months. Click the yellow buttons on the right or at the bottom of the page to get started.==========>I blog

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As you’re reading this blog post, you’re going to notice something interesting.
I’m not sure if it will happen as your reading the words – as you’re commenting, or as you are putting your name and email into the form and submitting now – as when you’re doing that you may or may not be paying attention.I blog
I remember one time, I was walking along the beach in Kailua, Hawaii.
Dragging my feet in the sand – wondering about the universe, I was absorbed inside on what I wanted – a burning desire to create something new – to make a change, and then…
…an old man, wearing a lightly worn straw hat, walking slowly as the blue waves were crashing, and the birds were signing in the background, and I noticed something, too.
The old man looked up – blue eyes, a wrinkled, darker tanned forehead, shining white around the pupils, and he said…
I blog when I’m happy
The Law of Attraction:

I’d define as the process by which your unconscious now affects your results, through the processes of deleting, distorting, and generalizing the input and output systems of your nervous system – as experienced through the five senses.
I blog when I’m sad.
Or – your not conscious of more than 99% of what you do in life. Sometimes your walking in a store – and you choose to buy something automatically. Your not aware of the bottoms of your feet as you read this – until I just mentioned that fact, and you felt a particular sensation…
…didn’t you?
I blog whenever.
As you notice that, understand that your life is being run by programs – whether they are getting you what you want all the time, or creating what you don’t want all the time.
How writing affects your unconscious outcomes:
blog blog blog blog blog blog blog blog blog blog….I blog you should too.
Your memories, and awareness aren’t what really happens, they’re internal representations of what is going on around you. For example, you might spend a majority of the day focusing on what you want, and interpreting experiences in a way that focuses your unconscious outcomes towards what you want – or you might spend the majority of the day focusing and acting unconsciously in the way that you not want.
Whether your unconscious, or conscious of these processes – and whether it’s what you want or not want determines the ways you’re responding to the world, and both directly and indirectly affects the way LIFE responds to your intentions and actions.
So… they say to ‘visualize’ and ‘make affirmations’.
I’ve got a better way.
Blog daily. Make videos every day. Learn to interpret your experiences for the magic that your finding in them as you focus, and realize that this directs your unconscious processes in creating magical outcomes. Write about your memories in a way that sheds new light and understanding on pain, and your unconscious will re-write your memories and representations in a way that forges a new unconscious outcome.
This is the blogging system I use. It’s only $25 – and easy.

And as you pay attention to what you’re creating, and the way you’re interpreting your experiences as your blogging now – you’ll be sharing your new discoveries, and new insights with the world – and you can’t observe the world in a certain way, without changing it.
(more on that later)
By blogging daily, you can re-frame your own experiences, the things your learning – the information coming at you, and you can now create a new distortion of the universe – getting you what you want.
In addition – the more you blog daily now, and share yourself with the world, the more people will like, and be attracted to what you’re writing – and why not make money now as they do?
That’s how I’ve sponsored nearly 5,000 people online – without any paid ads, by re-writing my own unconscious mine to create what I want simultaneously, earning the income I’ve always desired, as you go deep down inside, and ponder.
It’s my goal in 2013 to spend more time reading, writing, and sharing in videos, and as your reading, watching, listening, and following, I’ll be sharing with you insights on breaking through now, here’s where you can pay attention, and learn:
3 places you’ll be following (to keep you guessing):
This blog – you can put your name and email in the form below, right after you comment.
Empower Network company blog – You can read and watch the daily show and insights here.
My Empower Network personal blog – now, I haven’t written I think anything there now, because I’ve focused my energy in writing and making videos company wide. But I’ll be doing something interesting there soon – because I now have people around me to help me get more done, in less time
One of the cool things that can happen to you, if you now allow your unconscious… mine is drawing me towards what I want, by putting your name and email into the form now.
I’ll see you back here next time – whenever that is… maybe today, now…
As he looked right at me with his fiery, blue eyes, dilated pupils, and fierce… aged face – he said:
“Your in the right place, at the right time… always… and thinking makes it so”
-David Wood
I change the future by writing“
P.S. As you’re commenting below, feel free to     share a powerful story that happened to you, realizing that any experience in your life can mean something or nothing – interpreting it makes it so – and as you learn to like your experiences, and think about them in a process to create exactly what you like, that as you’re liking this post, you can feel good – knowing you can bring more of what you like into your life, by affirming what you want to do, as you put your name and email in the form today – enjoying the powerful video that you may not have seen with these new eyes.
P.P.S. Appreciate you.
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They are proposing the implementation of a new law that would basically require ALL passenger cars and trucks manufactured after September 2014 be equipped with a “black box,” similar to what’s currently installed on airplanes.

These boxes could be capable of tracking things like speed, location, number of passengers, etc.

It’s not clear exactly how these “black boxes” would be used, but it’s important to note that this isn’t something that has to pass through Congress…


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To me, this is just another clear indicator that “Big Brother” is coming to America… And he’s coming fast. What little privacy we have left in America today will soon be gone.

Already, the government admits to snooping on our phone calls and emails. There are cameras and microphones everywhere… And now even drones (like the ones we use to spy in Afghanistan) are rumored to populate our skies.

But what can you do?

Well, one successful friend of mine (who’s a multi-millionaire and a medical doctor) says you can actually take some pretty simple steps to protect yourself. He says you can LEGALLY hide assets and income from the gov’t and you can LEGALLY limit how gov’t and big companies spy on you too.

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Feeling Alone in marriage.


Its sad but true many a men and women feel alone in marriage for many  many  reasons some reasons may be big and over bearing but most of the time many are so small but here's the problem the smallest of issues are the one's that if left alone and unsolved can lead to serious neglect and separation.

When you have a plan to keep things open in an upfront love kind of way there will be no need to feel alone.

Over time its the small issue's that cause the most damage to a relationship and here's why we don't mention it we just tend to stuff it down or sweep it under the rug so to speak but as soon as someone in the relationship has had enough sweeping it under the rug they explode because now small issues get big and big issue's get huge.

The best thing to do in a relationship to solve these small issue's is to constantly talk about them as soon as you get your feeling hurt your you thing your partner isn't honoring you you need to say something.


Feeling alone will have a negative  impact on your health and self image and it always plays tricks on your mind.


Some people including myself  think its a waste of time talking about how I felt about a statement that was said or why I should say something about how my needs aren't being met and that's the area we all need to approach with an upfront LOVE.

This is where you can start to feel alone and rejected, if you and your partner do not have a plan or agreement that's if you feel anything is not right no matter what it is that person has the open door to speak of what ever is concerning them.

Being alone or feeling alone are all results of choice's we make, I heard this quote from a Pastor once and he said this. IF YOU FAIL TO PLAN, YOU ARE UNKNOWINGLY PLANNING TO FAIL.

Do not let anything go on unresolved because what happens is we automatically start to harbor bad feeling and resentment against a person place or thing and the sad thing is that some of the issues are preconceived ideas that have nothing to do with what just happened in front of you.

The best thing is to always have a planned agreement in your relationship to always feel free to speak what ever is on your heart and especially what's grieving your heart.

You are important, you are worth it, your relationship is worth saving, we all need a plan to succeed so that we will never feel alone even when we are by ourselves. 

Most men have a hard time with this and just stuff away all the seemingly small things aside, but believe it or not it robs your wife of truly seeing you as a caring person a person that has feelings emotions and ideas of how you perceive things should be in a marriage.

Yes women, men also feel alone at times, yes we do like to be included but for some reason we have a harder time understanding it ourselves.

All to often men and women withdrew from each other for the same reasons, but if you start with a plan to cut off your preconceived ideas by agreeing to not let anything slide past you it will have a great positive effect on your relationship making you not feel alone any longer then need be.

So lets plan on never being alone especially in our thoughts toward one another by keeping our communication lines open full of LOVE AND HONOR TOWARDS EACH OTHER.

Thanks for reading Wade Kapaona.

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Hello Relationships

I want to talk about Money in relationships, this is a subject that has many a relationships in knots, why is money one of the main factors in ruining marriages or relationships? Is it because of money or is it the lack of money that causes the issues?

I think we can all agree that money is a good and necessary tool in any relationship for all the obvious reasons, we get to use money  for many different purposes that makes our lives easier.

The problem for most relationships is the lack of money that causes issues in relationships, so how do you solve the problem of not having enough money.

You are in for a treat because we no longer have to solve the money problem the issue is already solved.

This means your relationship never has to be without money.

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I mentioned friends and family because the system is so fun easy and rewarding it will make you so happy you will want to share it with others.
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So get involved today and enjoy the ride.CLICK HERE  for more info. My wife and I are happy for your new beginning . Thanks Wade Kapaona.

Vacations Hot

Hello friends lets talk.

Taking the weekend off for family time is good for the soul not having enough down time for yourself can cause burnout, rundown and bad attitudes, That's why I really suggest to take time off from what ever you need to in order to refresh yourself take a mini vacation.

A relationship between to loving people will need their time of refreshing date nights, taking a vacation is a great way to refresh any relationship just getting away from the same old same old routine will have such a great affect on an individual  and couples who have been together for awhile really need to do what ever it takes to get a break and refresh.

Vacations don't always have to be a big planed out thing sometimes planning big vacations can cause more stress and anxiety in a person or relationship and after isn't that part of the reason why we want to take a vacation in the first place.  

Quick mini vacations here and there would be the trick to keep the heart light and open for romance and fun and sometimes staycations work wonders as well farm the children out to a friends house or maybe your relatives for the night or weekend just so you and your special someone have some alone time.

Time away just the two of you can open up some of the best heart to heart conversations ever, it really has a calming affect on you and this is what relationships need to keep that upfront love opened and engaged we all need this in our lives to keep us refreshed.

So get your vacation cap on and start thinking of ways to vacation yourselves.

Wade Kapaona,

Christian marriages

Hello friends, lets talk about christian marriages.

Today I spoke to a person that knows me pretty well and they  felt that my blog should have more of a christian profile to it. While I was trying to keep this blog free of christian influence there are things happening in the christian arena as far as relationships or marriages are concerned that need a NU Thought.

First of all I will say that when it comes to marriage christian or not people are people and we can all use a better understanding of ourselves and the things we tend to bring into our marriages knowing or unknowing.

We all need the freedom to grow in life, in marriage and in everything else we do. One of the things that I've observed in christian marriages is that they are no different then those of  non-christian marriages. .

Now, You might say well it should be different or you might say why should it be different, but the fact is that it shouldn't be different we all should enjoy great marriages and relationships full of fun and joy no matter what we call ourselves.

But from my own observation there are a lot of christian marriages that lack the full expression of life that GOD intended for all to have not just the Christians but all marriage relationships.

One area that the Christians marriage suffers in is the area of not feeling free enough to question each other and ask is this really all that our marriage is to be. Who do we talk to if we feel this way, Christians have stuffed many true feelings aside and say nothing only to have a unanswered question of, is this all there is to this thing I devoted myself to, this great thing called marriage.    It seems more like a mirage now that I'm here Right?

But the thing is people get stuck in a certain mind set some religious some not, these beliefs that we hold on to could be the very thing that hinder your joy and passion in our relationships, and we always need to question those joy stealing beliefs.

And marriages today are just like this story. The story begins at a big family gathering which is happening at the granddaughters  house for thanksgiving, and the granddaughter is preparing the favorite family ham the way her mom did which was passed down from great grandmoms tradition, so the granddaughter does the same thing she saw her mom do when it came to cooking the ham but she ask her mom, mom why do we cut the ends of the ham off before we cook it. her mom says that's the way your grandmom prepared it. yeah but why, mom says I don't know lets ask grandmom,.grandmom says I don't know why you do it that way, I cut the ends off the ham because back then we didn't have a pan big enough for the ham to fit in.

Traditions and beliefs have a tendency to make us do things that are otherwise unnecessary or worst crippling to our relationships, why do we do the things we do?, why do we think the things we think?.
no body wants to be wrong about something,  I would rather be found wrong and fix the problem then to

think I'm right and live in a mediocre Christian marriage any day.

It always pleases me to see older Christian couples receive  break thought in their marriage after suffering for so long over preconceived ideas of how life is supposed to be in a marriage.
 

Home is where the heart is

Hello friends welcome back,come on in and have a sat lets talk.


Yesterday we talked about how our relationship are the CORE of our life, and how everything else will strengthen once we start to work on or pump up our relationships.   Yes it is similar to that of working out your CORE of your body its the same principle.

We also talked about our CONNECTION in a relationship as being more important then PERFECTION in a relationship, connection is the key that will unlock the heart of LOVE.

Today I would like to touch on a subject that causes more issues in a marriage then we care to mention, but it must be said in order to Identify it.

The home that you grew up in may be a big cause of issues in a relationship, now, some people might say, well, that's no secret I was raised in a bad home environment, yes, while that would be obvious, its the seemingly good family homes I want to talk about.


One in a relationship may come from a very good home, mom and dad full of love, brothers and sisters all get along, all needs are met by mom and dad every child in the is well taken cared of.


That person that comes from that type of  well taken cared of environment could inadvertently cause undue stress in a relationship,and this without knowing, for example wanting everything they had growing up at home to be in their current relationship, although none of these desires are bad, they could be a posing problem.

What I'm saying is that although these good and well intended blessings you receive while at home under mom and dad may not be a automatic blessing in your new relationship.

 We can bring bad baggage into the relationship and we can bring good baggage into the relationship, baggage is baggage no matter how you look at it.

Don't let any old baggage of any kind come between you and your new relationship no matter how well intended it may be. Cherish what you had at mom and dads love them for it, but start anew in your current relationship


Your relationship or marriage should begin a life of its own, making new blessing in your home, doing what is the best for your current relationship.

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BREATH DEEP

Hello friends welcome back to your relationship.

I would like to thank all those who are following along, thank you India for joining in, thank you UK for joining us as well, and thank you Germany for your commitment in upfront love.

Well, I would like to apologize to all the relationships out there, I was told by a reader that they, (meaning he and his bride to be) needed more time to work on  issues that were brought up two to three blogs ago.

He and his fiancee have been following along and doing the homework asking one another the hard questions with an upfront love approach and found themselves in a very sensitive area which needs extra time to resolve the issue,and trying to keep up with the new blogs add extra stress to their relationship.    I'm so so sorry to all of you that may feel the same way, please! feel free to go along at your own pace.

Don't worry about keeping up with new blogs, that's what is so great about  blogs you can get to it when its convenient for you. However, I really appreciate your commitment in taking a bold step to work on your relationship.

The main goal in this process is to promote CONNECTION in the relationship not perfection, if you are having a tough time on an issue take as long as you need to. Identify the root of the issue and to find out or clarify if the issue comes from within the relationship or from outside the relationship. and deal with it accordingly.

Don't forget to breath your life depends on it, When ever you open a window of vulnerability in your life it can be a very scary place to find yourself in and its not easy at all to deal with again. But I want to encourage you to not let your pride or your past nor any person or anything stop you from getting your breakthrough.

I feel the need to repeat myself and say that your relationship is CORE to the strength of your life, when we  put our relationships first everything else in our life will start to fall in order, your household will get in line, your profession will fall in its right place, and your finances will get in line.  These are the added benefits of working on the CORE relationship.

 So get to work and strengthen your CORE and watch the rest of your life strengthen with it.

Thanks for coming you guys ROCK !  See ya soon  JD.

Please remember to laugh as well, its good for the soul , Here's a funny video for you.

 

SEX? okay

Hello friends.

I hope we are still friends, if you are following along and taking steps to regain closeness in your relationship It could be getting you out of trouble, or pushing you deeper inside of it, either way you are making an effort to at least have some kind of movement in your relationship.    And no its not like a bowel movement, even though it may feel like it at times.   Believe me I know how you feel I've been there, please be nice to each other.

I have to say that a lot of couples start receiving hope and clarity in this stage of the process it gives them hope to go even deeper into their communication to see what other things could be hindering their closeness.     

At this point in the process couples experience the best sex they have ever had in their relationship, this happens due to their commitment to work out their issues. hey, hey, hey, we are talking about great sex here !    What sex starved couple wouldn't want that?

Question # 1, Are you experiencing what is known as break thought sex.    Hey if you're not experiencing break through sex you are not doing it right !!  I'm just saying.

Question # 2, Do you want sex at all at this point? I don't know, maybe the thought of having sex just grosses you out right now.   Hey lets be totally real about it, I understand, I've been there as well. and I happen to like sex very very much, did I mention how much I like sex? but it got to the point in my relationship that the beauty of my wife was hidden behind a crazy psycho mess.   Oh believe me I was there,  I didn't want to be. But we worked it out and we love each other again.  yeah !!!


I 'll leave you with a few more questions;

1.Do you want to resolve the disconnect in your relationship?  Be truthful, what are you afraid of.

2.Do you still think you can fall in love again in your relationship?  It will take work, is it worth it to you.

3.Are you willing to once again commit yourself to this once vibrant relationship? It takes two.

4.Do you miss having SEX in your relationship?    Let me tell you, I sure did.

I gave you enough to think about, until next time, get to work on your relationship, don't worry about being perfect, you have the rest of your life to be perfect.

Hey friends feel free to ask questions, Your freedom awaits you.


This is JD wanting to encourage your commitment to your relationship.

 

WHEN THE CRAP HITS THE FAN

Hello friends has the crap hit the fan yet.

If you have been working on your relationship talking about hidden things in your life and exposing the secrets, it should be getting a bit uncomfortable right now.   Just hold on this is a good thing, trust me.

Now you may need a few rules for communicating, When a person is speaking the other sits and listens no abusive words from either person.  Yes you may think about it, but don't say it you rascal.

As hard as it might be to hold your tongue this very thing will bring honor, respect, and love back in the relationship.  I'm sure you don't  want to end up on that demon merry- go- round that never lets you resolve even the smallest of issues.        Sounds like gluttons for punishment don't you think.

The goal in this stage is to figure out the real problem that's plaguing your relationship and it wont be easy, the reason for that is we tend to revert to a protection mode, we don't want to admit our faults or mistakes.          .Its all about owning your crap and being vulnerable.

This is where most relationships stall out because no one wants to take responsibility for their junk, this is known as the proverbial blaming phase. .e.g But you did that, that's why I did this, so its your fault and we are on that demon merry-go-round again doing nothing more then whining.  Yup its time to grow up now!!

Getting through the blaming stage is so freeing and liberating I kid you not, once you cross over the line of stupidness, seriously, you will wonder how you ever got in this mess in the first place.   Yes there really is hope.

At this point your eyes are open to find the truth now, your heart is open as well but very RAW you must push through to get to the real root or roots that have cause the disconnection in your relationship.   It is so worth the the fight.

The sad thing is relationships seldom get there because people would rather sweep it under the rug then take time to work at it, yet that is why we end up here in the first place.   Do you love yourself enough to fight for the truth?

Well that's it for now this is JD saying love yourself enough to fight for truth and liberty in your relationship.

LOVERS twist

 Hello and Welcome Upfront Lovers

Yesterday we talked about knowing our true selves, being true to ourselves and being a strong upfront lover.

In upfront love you must be transparent and open, most people are afraid of that because of the vulnerability one might experience. Yikes!

This step in the process of upfront love will uncover new issues to deal with, all the hidden secrets of a persons life must be spoken of to bring it out in the open and dealt with. Oh no!

Many couples have hidden secrets that kill the oneness and closeness of the relationship over time they get accustom to that way of life.  That's sad but true.

The real truth is that they have now reduced themselves into being acquaintances with the benefit of being bothered by each other.   How stupid is that, and we are known as the intelligent race.

Have you heard of a woman saying I want to get married so bad so I can be ignored and neglected. .       No! what planet would she be from, Right!  .OR.

What man would say I'd love to marry that girl just to do things behind her back.  No! No! No!, 1 this would be to much work for a guy, 2 its STUPID! right?

So we can clearly see that people generally want the best when it comes to relationships.  That's a good thing.

Guys relationships take work hard work and marriage well lets just say that marriage could just be all a big mirage if you are not open, vulnerable, transparent,and truthful.

So get to working on your MIRAGE oops I mean MARRIAGE it may get worst before it gets better but I happen to think its all worth it.

And you unmarried couples well you're going to hell, ha ha ah I'm playing with you, all kidding  aside go to work on your relationship.

Finding out who you are, and  what you are in a relationship is so freeing especially if your relationship is down in the dumps, stop blaming yourself its a relationship we all have baggage.  I'll see ya tomorrow.

Thanks for listening . My best to all  JD.

LOVE UPFRONT

Hello readers  welcome to this series of  talking about and understanding SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, MARRIAGE, LOVEMAKING,  MONEY AND LIFE.

Yes, I know  that this subject matter is not to popular with the general public,
 but these are the very things that get in the way of your true happiness. Yes I said your true happiness, singular.


Now, some of us may be married, some single , some don't know what they are right now, both men and woman married or not playing the field, you know what I mean, its like taking a new car out for a test drive every now a again to see how she handles or how he shifts gears.

So many of us treat SEX, MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIPS, LOVEMAKING, MONEY AND LIFE as if you can keep it separate from each other.

What I would like to share is that a person needs to be whole and true to self first,
 this means that we all need to understand ourselves enough to know our likes, dislikes, faults, and other short comings, Woman seem to be more in touch with themselves at an earlier age then men.

My hope in sharing this information is that it will help open the eyes of our young people that read this post; and perhaps maybe open the eyes of people that are in the thick of MARRIAGE that also read this post.

Hey don't let me stop you from living the way you want to live, I'm all about FREEDOM and LIVING LIFE
the way you want..

If you are look for a better relationship or marriage, I'd like to give some ideas and encourage you to think NU THOUGHTS, about the way you perceive things in your relationships.

One thing we need to know is that MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIPS are CORE to the rest of our life.

We cannot neglect the fact that most of us are very short sighted when we attempt to enlarge our life by including the life of another person and that person usually  is the one you LOVE or think you LOVE.

 Maybe you know you are not ready for MARRIAGE but would like to be in a RELATIONSHIP, or what ever the case maybe.

May I ask you a question?  As far as wanting a RELATIONSHIP do you really think you would be a benefit to the LIFE of that other person, lets say you start dating and after awhile you see that this girl deserves more then you can give her, as you can see I'm talking about a commitment not just talking about a wham bam type of relationship, we will talk about wham bam stuff later.

Would you be strong enough to tell that woman you are not right for her right now and that you would just ruin her life, explaining the reasons why you feel this way and start talking about real life issues that can currently and potentially affect your lives in a negative way. You see this understanding of  self-awareness is also an act of LOVE.

It is seldom easy to deal with relationships because most people are for a lack of a better word broken in some ways, by that I mean there could be hidden scares of abuse or past hurts that can cause a person to act or behave in a negative way it doesn't at all mean that they are a bad people ,its just means that they will need healing for that in order to be a whole person.

See for most people they date a while fall in LOVE get MARRIED at a young age and spend the rest of their lives reacting to everything that comes up in the MARRIAGE the sad thing is that people have been living like this for years.

My hope is that individuals and couples would approach relationships with a STRONGER UPFRONT LOVE that will put the desires of others before the thoughts of good intentions that we assume is good enough for others, reducing the cycle of a REACTIVE RELATIONSHIP to a PROACTIVE RELATIONSHIP.

Well this is all for today, I will see you tomorrow leaving you with a  NU THOUGHT, OF UPFRONT LOVE.

I wish the best for all of you, love JD

If any of my readers have any questions feel free to comment, I'm hear for you,
and I'm sorry if I stepped on any ones feelings today. See ya tomorrow!!

LOVE & ROMANCE

What woman do you know that doesn't like to be romanced. My hope is that all women would love and appreciate being romanced.

For the women that finds romance unattractive or a waste of time, I would like to apologize and say I am very sorry we as men have missed it big time in giving you what you need to feel safe and adored.

It is my hope that all women everywhere should feel free to live life waiting and wanting to be romanced by their special someone, having that dream of someday soon or maybe even waiting in anticipation of thinking to themselves will it be tonight that he wins my heart.

Hello: this is JD your writer having a thought, I'm no expert on this subject but I've been a subject in this matter. I know we all can use more ROMANCE and LOVE, women you deserve to have it and men we deserve to have it in our being to freely give it away.

I would like to talk to you about this matter of LOVE and ROMANCE if you would let me.
I know this could be intrusive in your private matters but this will give you the chance to be angry at me instead of the one you are married to or in relations with.

If nothing else you will be able to learn from my mistakes,  I will talk about LOVE, ROMANCE, RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE, this will be all about you, you don't want to miss it, I'll see ya tomorrow.

SEX RELATIONSHIPS WORK AND MONEY

Here's JD just thinking out loud, When is it that I feel the most alive, is it when I'm in the middle of having sex, or is it when I am in touch with all my relationships around me, or is it when I get that promotion at work, or is it when I have enough money that finances are not a problem any longer. I bet most of us would have to say YES, YES, YES, YES, to all of these questions not just the sex question, am I right about that?
But what I'm trying to say is this, these 4 different things all have something in common. Lets see if I can get you to follow along. Although SEX is great and I love sex, I really really do its a lot like MONEY, let me show you why, you get some one day and the next minute or 2 or 3 that's gone, whats up with that guys? Then comes RELATIONSHIPS, I love relationships, we all do right ? Well, some we may love more than others. But like SEX, RELATIONSHIPS too are a lot like MONEY and this is my take on it, You work really hard on or for your RELATIONSHIP and you make a mistake you do one thing wrong, one thing! and you've just blown it all in one mistake.How does that happen you ask yourself? Well life goes on, and the next morning you are off to WORK. Now ! like SEX, and RELATIONSHIPS you enjoy your WORK too, and like what we talked about before WORK is a lot like MONEY too, you labor hard to keep what you have, your job your money, then one day you find out that your BOSS hired someone else for your position, just like that there goes your WORK and your MONEY to, both taken away from you with little to no warning. Whats up with this picture!!! SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, WORK and now MONEY. So what about this thing CALLED MONEY, well, as I have shown you, your MONEY is very very important, funny or not this thing has got a very important place in our lives, don't you agree? And would you also agree that having more MONEY could make these other 3 elements in life that I have shown you MORE ABUNDANT? This has been my funny way of thinking out load, but if you are in need of CHANGE in your life and in need of  MORE MONEY click this SHOW ME HOW TAB.     Thanks for reading JD.

Please give me some feed back on this post, maybe you can share with me a little picture of whats happening in your life or just share your way of thinking out loud. Life really is funny.