happily ever after.

Relationships are key,

How many times have you heard the words happily ever after, these words can be very misleading if you are looking for an end to all unhappiness.
 

 

As long as you are in a relationship the words happily ever after can make you feel bliss or at the least hopeful for one day receiving happy times for the rest of your life, but for many people happily ever after tends to bring despair and heart ache.

My take on why many people feel cheated by these elusive words could be the fact of how they understand the words themselves.

For me I feel these words were put together to make you feel happy and hopeful with great intention  to support pleasurable outcomes in everyone's life with no reason to cause harm what so ever to anyone.

Let me ask you this question, when did you receive your happily ever after? hopefully you receive your happily ever after every time you experience a hard time and get through it with good results and outcomes..

I hope you can see what I'm getting to, because in relationships the happily ever after bliss comes to us moment by moment there is no one time fix all happily ever after because in life we all face obstacles that will challenge us and take us on a detour out of our happy zone, this doesn't mean that your life sucks and that you can never get your life of happily ever after ever. It just means that you are still alive living with imperfect people that want their own happily ever after that never seems to come either, or so they say.

We are all imperfect people believe it or not and we all contribute to moments of unhappiness and that's why our happily ever after come in moments some moments last longer then others but they are all moment by moment and we must cherish all moments to be a better person for other people in our lives. 

I once heard a men say to me and he was being funny when he said it and it went like this, If it wasn't for other people this world would be a really nice place to live, isn't that funny people need people even though some moments you can't live with them and some moments you can't live without them we all need people in our lives to make life worth living yet sometimes you just wonder gosh is there any other way to make life better without them.

The answer to that is no, we need other people, what you really need is a better you and you might not know this but you too would enjoy a better you since every moment depends on you being your best you you can be..